| Hi Heathershenhouse
"Sally" was in tears after catching her husband having sex with another woman... again.
And not even an hour later he was professing his undying love to her. He made her feel guilty for wanting to leave him. He made her feel hopeful when he promised to make up for his indiscretions. He made her scared when he said he couldn't live without her.
She called me because she wanted to know what SHE could do to help HIM.
Abusers will exploit your emotions to get their way. They will use every bit of vulnerability you have to use, abuse, and hurt you. Then they will employ you to help them rather than taking any personal responsibility for helping themselves!
Emotions are wonderful but if you are overly emotional, you are exploitable!
In today's world, it's so popular and acceptable to say "follow your heart" and I'm warning you that your heart is not equipt to make all of your decisions for you!
Your heart only wants to love so it doesn't make decisions regarding safety or higher purpose.
A mechanic can fix your car but you wouldn't ask him to do your laundry too.
If you are highly in tune to your heart and your emotions, it's time to get in touch with your head and your higher self too!
The next time your in a situation that makes you feel scared, lonely, or guilty, ask yourself these questions: - Is this a one time incident or a pattern?
- Is this something I wish to experience again?
- Is this something I'd wish for my kids / parent / close friend to experience?
- Do I walk on eggshells?
- Am I safe enough to talk about this?
- Do I make excuses for their behavior?
Emotional exploitation is not OK but there is something you can do about it! Listen to your head and your higher self, not just your heart!
Your head is smart, it runs on logic, assesses risks, and makes rational decisions.
Your higher self is your inner light, your God-ness, your soul. It makes decisions for the greater good and for the betterment of self, family, and humanity.
You have all that you need to be happy, healthy, and peaceful but if you need help, reach out!
If you are unsure if you are in a toxic relationship, please reach out. I am more than happy to set up a free call to help!
Hit reply to this email or contact me at the info below! With love, gratitude, and inspiration, Heather Paris
607-269-7815
www.liveinspirednow.com
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