Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Why pizza tastes better in Buffalo...

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Thad walked in the door at 8pm, he had worked late, and after such a long day I thought he might be ready for a glass of red wine and some chill time. Instead he said...

"Let's drive to Buffalo for pizza!" 

From where we live, Buffalo is a 3 hour drive! I grabbed a light jacket and jumped in the Jeep!

3 hours later we were eating delicious vegan pizza at Allentown Pizza

It was obvious that a little adventure is just what Thad needed! The pizza was fantastic... but the adventure was AWESOME and we even learned a few things...

  • We modeled for our kids that adventures don't have to involve risky behavior.
  • It showed my husband that I was (and always am) willing to meet his needs.
  • Things stay open WAY later in the city! (Allentown Pizza is open til 4am!!!) 
  • And for me... well I LOVE road trips, adventure, and vegan pizza so I was thrilled!

Last week I took another trip to Buffalo with my girlfriends for a vegan food extravaganza and we of course ended up at Allentown Pizza in which I realized...

Pizza tastes better in Buffalo... or anywhere that you can enjoy an adventure with the people you love! 

What adventure will you be going on next??? Hit reply to this email and let me know! 

Later this week, Thad and I are off to Tennessee for a week of exploring, fun, and vegan food of course! Do you have any suggestions of things we must see along the way???

Follow our adventures on Instagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook!

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
607-269-7815
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com

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Join me for Kundalini Yoga classes on Mondays at Auburn Public Theater in Auburn, NY from 7:15pm-8:30pm. Bring a friend, all are welcome!
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I am working hard to get TACK 17 into schools and I won't stop until we help young people become literate in social, emotional, and mental wellness! 

The strength of your relationship is what helps shield them from the temptations and challenges of the world!

If you'd like to bring TACK 17 to your child's school, please feel free to share the link www.tack17.com or my contact information at the bottom of this page. Thank you!
Bring the message of inspiration and living above the influence of your feelings to your school or organization! Booking now for Fall 2018! Call 607-592-6291 or email Heather@liveinspirednow.com
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Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Why your self care doesn't work...

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Do you know the difference between self care and self medicating? If not, that could be the reason your "self care" isn't working!

Self care is preventative. Self medicating occurs during emotional crisis. 

Self medicating happens when you've become exhausted, resentful, or upset. You've taken care of everyone else and no one cared back. Now you are "rewarding" yourself with something destructive because you are pissed off, sick of it all, or determined to give a giant middle finger to the world as pay back and you feel completely justified in doing so!

I've been there too. There is a better way.

Self care happens BEFORE you give every ounce of yourself. In fact, it happens before you are even the slightest bit uncomfortable. And if you do it preventatively, you are FAR less likely to ever self medicate again. 

Self medicating is trying to make yourself temporarily feel better at the expense of your health or well being. It's like trying to fill your cup with an eye dropper while allowing everyone else to drink out of it! There's never enough!

These are some examples of self medicating especially when done in excess: 

  • Gambling
  • Drinking
  • Drug use
  • Sexual deviance
  • Spending money aka retail therapy 
  • Going outside of your relationship
  • Stealing / Lying
  • Eating
If there is a chance that you'll feel terrible after, you could get arrested, you could lose your job, relationship, or integrity, you are self medicating. 

Self care is identifying your needs and meeting them in positive and healthy ways. It's keeping your cup full and allowing others to have whatever flows over the edge. 

Some examples of self care:

  • Meditating
  • Yoga or exercise
  • Taking a walk
  • Deep breathing / fresh outdoor air
  • Visiting people you love
  • Calling a lifeline: friend, coach, parent, etc.
  • Body work: massage, facial, mani/pedi
  • Taking a bath
  • Trying something new / adventure
  • Smiling (totally under-rated)
  • Snuggles with a pet or loved one
  • Cup of tea
  • Reading a book / learning something new
When you take care of yourself, you teach others how to care for you too! You'll feel better about any challenges that come your way, and you give other people permission to care for themselves as well... especially your kiddos who are watching and modeling everything you do! 

Self care is not a luxury, it's mandatory if you want to live your best, healthiest, and happiest life! 

What is your favorite thing to do for self care? Hit reply to this email and let me know! 

Follow our adventures on Instagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook!

With love, gratitude, and inspiration,

Heather Paris
607-269-7815
www.liveinspirednow.com 
Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com

Coaching is a holistic alternative to therapy. It's fast, affordable, and highly effective! Just hit reply to this email if you'd like to know how coaching could help you or your family!

 

Join me for Kundalini Yoga classes on Mondays at Auburn Public Theater in Auburn, NY from 7:15pm-8:30pm. Bring a friend, all are welcome!
Kundalini is the yoga for awareness and combines movements with meditation, mantra, and deep relaxation. Experience the union of your soul with the universe in this 90 minute rejuvenating session!
I am working hard to get TACK 17 into schools and I won't stop until we help young people become literate in social, emotional, and mental wellness! 

The strength of your relationship is what helps shield them from the temptations and challenges of the world!

If you'd like to bring TACK 17 to your child's school, please feel free to share the link www.tack17.com or my contact information at the bottom of this page. Thank you!
Bring the message of inspiration and living above the influence of your feelings to your school or organization! Booking now for Fall 2018! Call 607-592-6291 or email Heather@liveinspirednow.com
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