Hello dear Heathershenhouse If you only considered a time I reacted badly as a representation of who I am- you would think I am an asshole. Looking at one moment, event, or time period in any persons life won't give you the full picture of who they are. Before you pass judgement on another person consider this: 🧐 Did you personally have a bad experience with this person or are you getting 2nd hand info? 🧐 Was this person having a bad day or challenging moment or is this an ongoing pattern that you witnessed with your own eyes? 🧐 Will your thinking less of this person improve the situation? 🧐 Have you spoken directly to the person to try and get some clarity? I believe that if you can see the good in all then you can't see good at all. Judging people based on anecdotal experience is like hating all vegetables because you once had a bad carrot. This doesn't mean you should keep all people in your life- by all means- walk away from people who would harm you... but think twice before gossiping or talking bad about people. Even if they are truly "bad-" you talking about them will never make them better. Use your energy instead to put good into the world, pray or meditate for those who need it, and work on being your best self! Thad and I are off to Mexico for vacation! Have a blessed week! Lots of love to you and yours!! Hit me up on Facebook or at my info below and don't forget to follow our adventures on YouTube, Instagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook! With love, gratitude, and inspiration, Heather Paris Call or Text: 607-592-6291 www.liveinspirednow.com Email me: heather@liveinspirednow.com Follow me on YouTube, Instagram (@heatherparis) and Facebook! |